family center

Case 1

My 13 year old son Vinay was very violent with kids. School had warned that if they don’t see improvement in his behavior they would ask him to leave the school. He was not doing well in his studies and had failed in the 8th standard. Stealing, telling lies, arguments with school teachers, authorities and parents. His behavior was getting from bad to worse and he had deteriorated in academics. We were referred to Dr. Seema Darode by his school principal. She assured us that we would surely see positive changes in him after a couple of counselling sessions. She asked us to accept him, listen to him, trust him and above all involve him in decisions and respect him. As far as his behavior and atmosphere in the house goes, we are really happy, he is now much softer and not aggressive and we can have a reasonable conversation... lots of improvement in all fronts, from us & him. He is doing fine. Thanks to all your inputs & guidance. Thanks to all the doctors and staff at Dr. Seema Darode’s Child and Family Guidance Center for being with us and being so supportive. Thank you he did well in his 10th board. We are amazed at his motivation. Thanks a lot Dr.Seema for guiding us through out!

Case 2

My 11 year old son Abhijeet had a bad habit of rejecting any type of instructions. Had started telling lot of lies. He could not concentrate on any subject for more than 5-10 min leading to a very difficult situation of scoring very less marks in the exams/tests. He didn’t respect elders and seniors. He was less matured for his age. However there wasn’t evidence of any bad habits like smoking etc. One of our friend had referred us to Dr. Seema mam. After sharing our concerns with her, she had a few sessions with us and Abhijeet. She asked us not to demand and decide for him. Let him take his own decisions. Talk to him, give him options, appreciate his efforts, identify his strengths and motivate him, She gave us valuable tips which were eye opener sessions. Till now we used to think that there is problem with “him”. Now we have understood the need to change our approach. We are trying to accept him. He looks happier. Thanks to Dr.Seema Darode and her team for all the smiles.

Case 3 Couple Counselling

Ravi my husband and me came for counselling because we were no longer communicating, or able to be intimate with one another. I had developed anorexia and bulimia and had lost confidence, Ravi didn’t really understand this and felt rejected by the fact that I didn’t want to get physical with him in any way. We had constant fights and our relationship was under a lot of pressure. We started couples counselling but were unable to talk, spending a lot of time fighting in the sessions. The counselling gradually got us to calm down and start respecting each other again. Ravi began to understand me & my insecurity and rejections. After a few months we developed intimacy. By the time counselling ended we were more positive and ready to move forward together. We no longer spoke about breaking up and were no longer disrespectful to each other. All relationships require on-going work, and we were finally able to understand what this meant. Our heartfelt thanks to Dr. Seema and our relationship counsellor for helping us find our joys again.

Case 4

My younger brother Vikrant who is studying in second year of engineering was undergoing academic problems and was depressed since a couple of months. He had started showing temper-tantrums and behaved very aggressively with all at home, especially my mother. I happened to see Dr Seema Darode's advertisement in Sakal's Family Doctor Magazine. I discussed it with my parents and we decided to take Vikrant there. After meeting madam and discussing with her about Vikrant's problems, we were assured that we have come to the right place. My brother Vikrants case was taken up by Dr Viraj Darode who is an excellent counsellor. Vikrant changed dramatically with counselling sessions and today our family is proud of Vikrant.

Case 5- Marriage Counselling

Hi! I'm Saurabh. Sunita and I were married about 18 months back. Our's was a love marriage. Actually we were going steady for 7 years before we tied the knot. We knew each other inside-out, yet after marriage there was tremendous disharmony to the point of separation. We had even filed a divorce petition. Then, one of our relatives advised us to go in for marriage counselling before we take final decision of separating. When we finally opted for the decision of going in for counselling session it had to be obviously with the experts in this field. Before we knew what was happening we had started our session at the centre. Dr. Seema Darode's advise and expertise along with two decades of experience changed our lives completely. Only after few sessions we realized our mistakes and learned how important adjustment is in marriage. She gave us wonderful tips which we both have treasured for life and have been real eye-openers! We thank all the staff and doctors at the Child and Family Guidance Centre for bringing back smiles in our life.

Case 6

My younger brother Vikrant who is studying in second year of engineering was undergoing academic problems and was depressed since a couple of months. He had started showing temper-tantrums and behaved very aggressively with all at home, especially my mother. I happened to see Dr Seema Darode's advertisement in Sakal's Family Doctor Magazine. I discussed it with my parents and we decided to take Vikrant there. After meeting madam and discussing with her about Vikrant's problems, we were assured that we have come to the right place. My brother Vikrants case was taken up by Dr Viraj Darode who is an excellent counsellor. Vikrant changed dramatically with counselling sessions and today our family is proud of Vikrant.

Case 7- Marriage Counselling

Hi! I'm Saurabh. Sunita and I were married about 18 months back. Our's was a love marriage. Actually we were going steady for 7 years before we tied the knot. We knew each other inside-out, yet after marriage there was tremendous disharmony to the point of separation. We had even filed a divorce petition. Then, one of our relatives advised us to go in for marriage counselling before we take final decision of separating. When we finally opted for the decision of going in for counselling session it had to be obviously with the experts in this field. Before we knew what was happening we had started our session at the centre. Dr. Seema Darode's advise and expertise along with two decades of experience changed our lives completely. Only after few sessions we realized our mistakes and learned how important adjustment is in marriage. She gave us wonderful tips which we both have treasured for life and have been real eye-openers! We thank all the staff and doctors at the Child and Family Guidance Centre for bringing back smiles in our life.

Case 8

My eight years old daughter Anju, was showing very poor performance in school. There were constant complaints about her academics and behaviour from the school. My wife and I were very worried and felt embarrassed when called by the school authorities. Anju did not write, kept running and jumping in the classroom, was very restless and had poor concentration. They even complained that she left the exam papers incomplete. One of my office colleagues advised me about taking her to Dr. Seema Darode's Center. We started off with the therapies as advised. Today, we see Anju as one of the best student in her class and has become her teachers favourite. We are very thankful to madam and her expert team of doctors and psychologists for changing our lives.

Case 9- Pre-marriage Counselling

My daughter Tulsi was 32 years of years and had turned down many a dozen proposals for marriage. My husband and I had began to worry and didn't know what she had on her mind. We even permitted her to marry anyone of her choice, but she didn't show interest. My husband co-incidentlly happened to see Dr. Seema Darode's Website. We were assured that Tulsi would positively change after the counselling sessions. And we were right! The counselling session helped her to get rid of her apprehension about marriage. She also got aware of the importance of marriage, choosing a life partner, marital-adjustment and so on. Tulsi is now well settled in marriage and we are very happy for her. I think pre-marriage counselling is very important in today's times when divorce cases are so much on the rise. It really helps one in making a right choice and choosing the person who is most suitable to you.

Case 10

I am Sameer. I have gone through a difficult, stressful period of my life a few years back. I was not at all interested in studies. I used to spend time watching T.V, playing games on computer, etc. My 10th and 12th standard scores were very dissatisfactory due to this. It was my mother who brought me to Dr. Seema Darode's Center. This was the most fortunate day of my life. It was indeed a turning point in my life. I was undergoing tremendous mental stress, depression, anxiety, lack of concentration and so on. But with the help of Dr. Seema and Dr. Viraj, I could conquer all the negativities in my life. The therapies changed my life completely. Today, I have successfully completed my graduation with a 1st class and pursuing masters in communications studies from University of Pune with very good performance. My mother is very happy for me. I am completely changed to a person with optimum confidence and a very positive attitude towards life. I owe it all to Dr. Seema Madam and Dr. Viraj, who is a great person.

Case 11- Clinical Problems-Anxiety-Stress-Depression

I'm Vikas and working for an International Company. Since the past couple of years I found myself too stressed on my job. This made me feel very anxious and depressed. It affected my family life. I found myself very irritable and short-tempered. I would get angry with my wife and daughter for the least things. I had lost my sleep and appetite. My wife was very concerned about my behaviour and spoke about it to our family doctor. It was he who referred me to Dr Seema Darode. When in the session I was made to understand my own part in causing my problems, and method of making appropriate changes. I used my new found knowledge, as a defense against despair, frustration and increased personal awareness. I had a feeling of well-being and my colleagues and family found me more enthusiastic and happy. I am very thankful to Dr Seema Darode's Child and Family Guidance Centre.